Some of our customers are kind enough to allow us to share their stories, in the hope of inspiring others who feel their situation is beyond hope.
We will never share your information without your permission! Here's a lovely simple story from Shona.
Hi both. I've been enjoying reading the testimonials and longer success stories you've been putting up. Some of them are really amazing, and mine seems quite a simple little story in comparison!
I met Barry through one of my friends, and we clicked instantly. We started dating, and I moved in with him very quickly after that. Everything was great, and we were happy together for about seven or eight years.
Then things started going down hill. It wasn't like some of your other stories where one of us did something really bad, we just started drifting apart. I guess really what I mean is Barry started drifting. He was showing less and less interest in me. He had met some new people after he changed jobs, younger people, and he was spending a lot of time going out with them. That was ok, I didn't have a problem with that. But their influence seemed to have a bad effect on him, I think he saw me as old and stuffy, and he preferred the company of his new friends, many of whom were young and attractive girls.
One evening when he came home very late, he said we had to talk. That's always an ominous sign isn't it? And so it was. He said he didn't love me any more, and that is was pointless us living together. He wanted me to move out. He said that there was no hurry, and I could take my time to find somewhere to live, he wasn't pressuring me.
Obviously I was upset (huge understatement!) I cried and cried, and asked him if we couldn't work it out. But he wasn't interested. He looked a bit guilty, but maybe that was my imagination.
I stayed on for another few weeks while I was looking around at apartments. In many ways it was like not much had changed. We still slept in the same bed, and we even had sex a few times, but I knew he wasn't really making love to me, his mind was somewhere else, maybe with someone else? I didn't want to know, it hurt too much to think about. I just tried to enjoy the time we were together, and not think about being apart.
That's when I found your spell. I was desperate, and normally wouldn't have used a spell because I never believed in that kind of thing. But I thought why the hell not? So I downloaded it and started doing it. I was pretty surprised when a couple weeks later he asked me if I wanted to go out to a restaurant with him. Of course I said yes. What I didn't know was that a lot of his new friends were there too, but it was actually quite a nice evening, and I got on well with them, they seemed cool.
He still hadn't said anything that made me think he had changed his mind about me moving out though, and after a couple days he actually asked if how I was getting on looking for somewhere to live. I started crying again, and he looked a bit guilty (again) and wandered off.
I kept up with the spell though. Apart from anything else, I really liked how it made me feel, sort of relaxed and calm. I needed that.
I guess it was another few weeks after that when I saw that things really were changing. He cooked me dinner (he never cooked me dinner before!) He spent more time talking with me, and he was just generally a nicer guy to be around. He took an interest in me. It gave me a real boost, and I "bit the bullet" and brought up the subject of me moving out, saying something about how hard it was to find an apartment I could afford. He said maybe I should stay around, that it was silly us splitting up when we got on so well.
And that really was that. There wasn't any big emotional reunion or anything, we just sort of drifted back together like we had drifted apart! We never really talked about the whole moving out thing again.
That was all a few years ago now, and we're still together and really happy. I think we're closer now than we were before. Barry still sees his new friends (well not so new now!), and I see them too, they really are a nice bunch and we all get on really well.
Some people might say Barry just went through a phase, and maybe he did, but I know in my heart that it was the spell that brought him out of it. I could feel it working somehow, in a way I can't really explain. So yeah, a good thing all round, and I really thank you both for all the work you put into making your site and the spell and everything.